The Dangers of Loose Expectations

If you want great results, assuming your team understands the outcomes you’re looking for is the best way not to get them.

A recent LinkedIn Learning survey of 3,000 professionals concluded that the inability to set clear and consistent expectations is hands down the most frustrating quality they have experienced in their managers. In our work with leadership teams of growing companies we witness first-hand the problems that ensue when expectations are unclear. In this article we will explore a few scenarios that illustrate why expectation clarity is so important; how individuals, teams and organizations suffer from unclear expectations; and what CEOs and leadership teams can do to build the discipline necessary to establish clear and consistent expectations.

ILLUSTRATIVE EXAMPLES

Kick the can down the road. Early on a founder and her key principals worked hard to build a successful firm. The founder told the principals not to worry “I’ll take care of you” and she truly meant it, but she really had no idea what ‘take care of you’ meant. The firm was wildly successful and when the founder finally stepped back to create a solution, it fell way short of their expectations.

You know what they say about assumptions! A CEO and marketing VP agreed that it would be important to have a customer panel at their upcoming industry conference. The VP and her team worked for several months to build a great event including what they thought was an innovative customer panel. The day before the conference the CEO ripped into the marketing VP for ‘the stupid’ way she set up the panel.

You’re taking what away? A founder and her principals were wildly successful in their first few years in business and the founder was quite generous with perks – large bonuses, club memberships, paid family trips, company cars, among others. The company continued to grow, and the founder became frustrated with a lopsided salary (and perks) structure that was making it difficult to invest and hire other talented people. Her discussions with the principals to revamp the executive compensation structure were not well received.

Isn’t it obvious? Many executives were concerned about what they felt was a lack of strategic direction, but the CEO’s consistent response was ‘our strategy is to grow in a manner consistent with our values.’ He often commented ‘I shouldn’t have to tell you; it should be obvious.’

ROOT CAUSES

Lack of discipline and avoidance are two key issues that hold executives back from setting and managing clear expectations. Let’s start with discipline. It is difficult to establish clear expectations when strategy and related priorities are not well defined or when priorities are constantly shifting. We are working with one CEO who has led the successful growth of his company on intuition and hard work. However, the company recently went public, and his span of responsibility grew significantly. As a result, his team of talented individual contributors is struggling – what is most important?  who is responsible for which cross-organizational initiatives? how do we prioritize limited resources? – which is causing infighting and creating serious inefficiencies. Making inadequate assumptions is another discipline related issue. Often times we observe leadership team members take action on important initiatives without stepping back even just briefly to ensure they are in alignment. They make assumptions about expected outcomes, who is going to do what by when, and other important factors. Sometimes the stars align, and their views are in sync but many times they are not, and chaos ensues. One client CEO was concerned about a customer concentration issue, so all three of her business line leads took the initiative (separately) to attack the issue and their teams wound up calling on the same customers with different pitches.

Tension is a natural part of negotiating and establishing clear expectations. Unfortunately, many executives (in fact, most adults) tend to avoid tension as they simply do not like conflict, difficult conversations or disagreement. Avoidance behavior is manifested when executive teams fail to discuss, debate and gain clarity on the natural overlaps between their roles. For example, without clarity faulty assumptions are often made about the obvious grey areas between product development and operations, investor relations and marketing, customer service and fulfillment, and many others. Delaying difficult or controversial discussions is another way avoidance behavior is exhibited. When executives ‘kick the can down the road’ about issues like compensation, ownership, or promotions frustration brews and trust begins to erode. We have observed CEOs destroy once productive relationships by making pseudo promises like ‘don’t worry I will take care of you’. There are usually good intentions behind these statements but as time passes the expectation gap often widens – i.e., ‘you are only giving my X% ownership?’

IMPACTS OF LOOSE EXPECTATIONS

It is pretty obvious from the scenarios and discussion of root causes above that loose expectations have consequences. Even healthy leadership teams with sound structural foundations and strong relational dynamics will exhibit signs of confusion and frustration when teammates are aren’t on the same page. For example, when an environment is fast paced leadership teams will sometimes take action without gaining clarity on expected outcomes and who is doing what by when. However, teammates on healthy teams are resilient and not likely to let confusion or frustration get in the way of what’s most important. They step back and gain clarity on how to get back on track.

Teammates on unhealthy teams are much more likely to let their individual frustration grow while at the same time avoiding the often-difficult discussions necessary to resolve frustration. Unfortunately, the longer it lasts the greater the likelihood that the impacts of frustration will be significant. A typical avoidance scenario looks like this – teammates avoid having tough discussions, they talk negatively about each other to others, they directly or indirectly undermine colleagues with whom they are at odds, the situation gets out of control and the CEO has to step in to help temper the situation. Often times the issue at hand is resolved in the short term but the seeds of dysfunction are sown for the longer term. Trust among teammates which is extremely hard to rebuild is degraded. The team continues to miss the opportunity to learn how to disagree and challenge each other productively. Managers and staff observe how the leadership team functions together and negative behaviors (avoidance, passive aggressiveness, hiding information) tend to cascade throughout the organization. Most importantly, time and attention are deviated from what is most important – customer service, operational efficiency, innovation.

RECALIBRATE EXPECTATIONS

As described above, loose expectations can be challenging for individuals, teams and organizations and the path to gaining necessary clarity is not always a smooth one. There are four important steps that leadership team’s need to take to get on the road to recovery.

Step 1 – Acknowledge the Challenges. Not unlike most difficult challenges, acknowledgment is critical. Leadership teams and individual team members must acknowledge the impacts and take responsibility for any failure to establish clear expectations. Acknowledgement should be forward looking and used a mechanism for learning and adjusting course.

Step 2 – Agree to a Few Principles. In order to build an environment where clear expectation setting becomes standard practice, leadership teams should establish and begin to model a few foundational principles. Below are a few examples:

• Both parties have a responsibility for clarity – e.g., if the receiver is not clear it is his/her responsibility to ask questions to gain clarity.

• Expectation setting should be a 2-way discussion between the parties involved with a willingness to listen to potential constraints or challenges.

• Link expectations to key priorities so that the parties involved can better understand why the expectations are necessary.

Step 3 – Build a Strong Relational Foundation. As mentioned above the impacts of ambiguous expectations can chip away at trust and hinder the ability of individuals and teams to engage productively. Principles can be established and time on agendas can be allocated but little will change without doing the hard work necessary to rebuild trust and have productive conversations. (use these links to access our previous articles on building trust and strengthening productive dialogue)

Step 4 – Execute and Monitor. Begin to model the principles and leverage stronger relationships to get clear on what the parties are expecting from each other. Periodically step back and monitor progress so that expectations can be recalibrated as new information emerges or the environment changes.

Building an environment where leaders become great at working with each other and their teams to establish clear expectations will reduce tension and frustration and enable all involved to maintain focus on growing, innovating, serving customers, and taking care of employees.